Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Day 16 – Your View On Homosexuality

First I would like to send a special shout out to my family and friends!  I'm thankful to have you in my life... although I may not always say it or express it, I sincerely love you and thank you for all that you do for me.  I was told not too long ago that you can't do everything by yourself and LAWD I'm being reminded of that daily.  Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU!!!!

Okay... this subject is a little touchy.  I don't want to offend anyone or hurt any feelings.  Sometimes (I've learned) I may say something or do something and it may come off the wrong way.  If anyone knows me, they know that I'm too nice.  I don't want anyone to feel like I hurt them in anyway... I put others feelings before my own and because of that, I feel I'm the one that's not understood totally... if that makes any sense at all?! 

If you would've asked me this 10 years ago, I'm sure I would've said something a little immature.  Back then I was stuck in my little girl ways.  I felt one way, and if someone was against me, I just knew they were wrong and I was right... okay, so I may still feel like this today.  BUT, now I feel like I can't judge NO ONE!  And I don't want anyone to judge me.  If you like it, I love it!  You know what I mean...  You could be in a heterosexual relationship and be worse off than a couple in a homosexual one.

What I don't particularly 'care' about is the ones that are extra!  That doesn't just go for their sexuality unfortunately... I'm talking about those extra ghetto folks, those extra hood folks, those extra extra folks... there's a time and a place for all of that.  Please be you... but just don't be so extra about it.  My 4 year old loves to jump around and be extra.  And I have to tell her little butt to calm down.  She can't jump around and do all of that when we are out at a restaurant or if we are in a library.  Just chill out sometimes.  You don't have to be so extra gay.  I'm sure you've seen them before... We've all seen them before.  And I feel like they are the ones that are making it so much more than what it has to be for the others.  I feel the same way about those extra hood joints... be you, do you... but by all means, don't bring that extra hood ghettoness into a professional setting or you will be looked at sideways!

Ohhhh, I just thought about it... you remember when "down low brothers" were the thing to talk about... Yeahhhh, that's another group that I don't 'care' for...  If you want to be gay, please be gay.  Don't be gay on the weekends and be with your girl or wife during the week.  That's not fair!  Just say you're bisexual like those confused ones.  (LOL!  I feel like I'm digging myself a hole!)  Let all parties involved know the real you.  Shout out to all the cheaters!  o_O

In conclusion, do you and be happy about it.  Don't let other folks opinions affect the way that you want to live.  As long as you are keeping yourself healthy and happy, I don't mind.  But what you won't do is try to lure me into your ways!  LMBO!!  Back when I was in high school, I could've sworn this girl was trying to get me.  I think that's why I felt the way that I did.  I'm not trying to be turned out!  I love ___ a little too much!  You heard about what Jill Scott is calling that?!  LMBO!  I have folks in my family that are like that and I don't love them any less.  I just want everyone to be happy.  Shoot, I'm sure some folks in my family thought I was until I had my daughter.  But whatever!!!  If only they knew!  Shoooooottttt!!  Ahahahaha!

P.S. I love the rainbow!  Why they have to take that?!  LMBO!!!

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